“The main thing that it changed was your priorities are not your own, but your priorities are for your children, to provide for them and to help develop them and to raise them into happy, successful adults. You learn how to put yourself second. Over time, over years it changes you to be more of a giving person. Also, you become more adaptable because you have to go with the flow. I think you’re able to live your life through someone else’s experiences and through their eyes and to be happy for someone else’s success even more than your own.”